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✅ جان گاتمن استاد دانشگاه واشنگتن در تحقيقى پيش بينى مى کند چه زوج هايي طلاق خواهند گرفت و چه زوج هايي با يکديگر خواهند ماند و او از اين دانش براى طراحى برنامه هايى براى بهتر ساختن ازدواج استفاده مى کند.

✳️ او با مشاهده ى صدها زوج در تعاملاتى 12ساعته در هر روز در يک اخر هفته کامل در آزمايشگاه عشق (يک اپارتمان راحت با تمامى امکانات منزل به اضافه ى يک آينه يک طرفه)
با صحت بالاى 90درصد طلاق را پيش بينى مى کند.

✅ از نظر او علايم پيش بينى کننده طلاق به اين شرح مى باشند:

☄ شروع شديد مشاجره
☄ انتقاد از همسر به جاى گلايه کردن
☄ نشان دادن انزجار
☄ دفاعى بودن شديد
☄ فقدان تاييد(بويژه طفره روى)
☄ زبان بدن منفى

✳️ در رويه مثبت قضيه هم گاتمن با دقت پيش بينى مى کند که کدام ازدواج ها در طى ساليان بهبود پيدا مى کنند.

✅ او دريافته است که اين زوجين هر هفته پنج ساعت زمان اضافى را به ازدواج خود اختصاص مى دهند.
کارى که اين زوج ها انجام مى دهند به شرح زير است و من آن را به شما توصيه مى کنم:

💠 خداحافظی ها:
اين زوج ها هر روز قبل از خداحافظى از اينکه طرف مقابل قرار است آن روز را چگونه بگذارند اطلاع حاصل مى کنند
(2دقيقه ×5 روز= 10 دقیقه )

💠 تجديد ديدارها:
در پايان هر روز کارى, اين زوجها يک گفتگوى تجديد ديدار ارام و بى استرس با يکديگر دارند
(20دقيقه×5روز= 1 ساعت و 40 دقیقه )

💠 عاطفه, لمس کردن, بغل کردن, نگه داشتن و بوسيدن - همگى به همراه محبت وبخشش (5 دقیقه × 7 روز= 35 دقیقه )

💠 قرار هفتگى: نشستى دو نفره در خلوت و فضايي آرام بخش و تازه کردن عشق(2 ساعت در هفته)

💠 تحسين و قدر دانى: هر روز حداقل پنج بار محبت و قدردانى صادقانه رد وبدل مى شود (5 دقیقه × 7 روز= 35 دقیقه )

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👤#مارتين_سليگمن

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Telegram auto-delete message, expiring invites, and more

elegram is updating its messaging app with options for auto-deleting messages, expiring invite links, and new unlimited groups, the company shared in a blog post. Much like Signal, Telegram received a burst of new users in the confusion over WhatsApp’s privacy policy and now the company is adopting features that were already part of its competitors’ apps, features which offer more security and privacy. Auto-deleting messages were already possible in Telegram’s encrypted Secret Chats, but this new update for iOS and Android adds the option to make messages disappear in any kind of chat. Auto-delete can be enabled inside of chats, and set to delete either 24 hours or seven days after messages are sent. Auto-delete won’t remove every message though; if a message was sent before the feature was turned on, it’ll stick around. Telegram’s competitors have had similar features: WhatsApp introduced a feature in 2020 and Signal has had disappearing messages since at least 2016.

Export WhatsApp stickers to Telegram on Android

From the Files app, scroll down to Internal storage, and tap on WhatsApp. Once you’re there, go to Media and then WhatsApp Stickers. Don’t be surprised if you find a large number of files in that folder—it holds your personal collection of stickers and every one you’ve ever received. Even the bad ones.Tap the three dots in the top right corner of your screen to Select all. If you want to trim the fat and grab only the best of the best, this is the perfect time to do so: choose the ones you want to export by long-pressing one file to activate selection mode, and then tapping on the rest. Once you’re done, hit the Share button (that “less than”-like symbol at the top of your screen). If you have a big collection—more than 500 stickers, for example—it’s possible that nothing will happen when you tap the Share button. Be patient—your phone’s just struggling with a heavy load.On the menu that pops from the bottom of the screen, choose Telegram, and then select the chat named Saved messages. This is a chat only you can see, and it will serve as your sticker bank. Unlike WhatsApp, Telegram doesn’t store your favorite stickers in a quick-access reservoir right beside the typing field, but you’ll be able to snatch them out of your Saved messages chat and forward them to any of your Telegram contacts. This also means you won’t have a quick way to save incoming stickers like you did on WhatsApp, so you’ll have to forward them from one chat to the other.

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